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4 April 2005

Question?

True Faith at 1:10 pm, Thoughts

My sister’s friend asked me yesterday a strange question:

If two guys asked you to marry them; The first one is a guy that you love but he doesn’t love you, he asked you to marry him for other purposes. Yet you love him very much.

The second guy is a person that loves you very much and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Yet you don’t love him.

They are all good and wealthy (if you care) with good manners.

Which one would you choose?

“Well I didn’t fall in love before, so I can’t answer your question” I said.
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If I had to answer at that time, I would say
“The second guy”

34 Responses to “Question?”

  1. Purgatory Says:

    Neither, wait for the third guy

  2. bo_ghazi Says:

    mo khofik makoo third guy!!

    Lots of couples love each other b4 getting married & they can’t imagine living apart. Yet after being engaged… well you know, its bye bye love life!

  3. True Faith Says:

    Purg,

    The third guy; a guy that I love; a guy that loves me in return.

    No, I don’t want to love; I don’t want to get hurt. I am already hurt from people that I don’t love; it will be harder if I get hurt from people that I love.

    Bo ghazi,

    Ya kethrhoom :(

  4. Ra-1 Says:

    second :)

  5. Purgatory Says:

    I still say take the third guy :)

  6. True Faith Says:

    Ra-1,
    Clever choice.

    Purg,

    And who’s the third guy?

    1. He love me.
    2. I love him.
    3. We love each other.

    Which one of those?

  7. Purgatory Says:

    Ah good question :) The third guy is the guy that is meant for you, aham shay he does not come through Ra-1 :p

  8. Ra-1 Says:

    Purg …
    for ur information she will take my opinion when this happen ;p

  9. True Faith Says:

    Ra-1,

    Of course I will do :)

    Purg,

    hahahaha

    You really mad me laugh.

    (Don’t tell Ra-1 that I laughed on your comment)

  10. Purgatory Says:

    Ra-1, hahaha, I like it when people start their sentences with “for your information”, typical kuwaiti :P

    TF, I will not, bes akhaf if you do not listen to her eth-d buffy 3aleeech, so becareful, then again she might bite you herself :)

  11. Ra-1 Says:

    I hate u Purg :

  12. Purgatory Says:

    Laish :) what did I do ?

  13. P4 Says:

    Marry me!

  14. rayhane najib Says:

    سلام
    كلاهما عذاب سينتهي بفقدان معنى الحياة
    أشاطر الرأي القائل بانتظار رجل ثالث

  15. بو مريوم Says:

    الحب وهم..

    يعنى ما فى اثنين متزوجين 24 ساعه حب..
    و لا اهم يقصون على روحهم..

    الانسان يحكم عقله..و يختار اللى ممكن يعيش معاه واقعيا..

    يعنى ممكن الرجل يكون رومانسى..و طيب.. بس أثول
    ما يقدر يسير امور البيت..
    ممكن الحياة تستمر معاه؟

    الحب مهم…بس مو كل شى..

  16. Q8ibloger Says:

    depends what the first guy is looking for

    2ithfar bithaat a deen taribat yadaak

  17. Simon Says:

    Well… in MY humble opinnion… ;)

    Far too many people get married before they are ready, I say wait for the third person as well.

  18. Vintage Says:

    why did your sister’s friend ask u this instead of asking ur sis… ?

    ive got enough love inside of me..so i should go for the second guy,

    bo maryoom, i feel ‘realistic’ in a ’sad way’ when married pple talk like you just did.
    and for the million times, i wish i can prove alot of married cases out there wrong.

  19. evil lil al Says:

    the important question is “who has got the hummer??” and another option is:
    Marry the first guy, throw him off the cliff, take his money enjoy ur life with his money go to spain. come back the second guy”really” loves u, so he will marry u regardless of the “widow” thingy, marry him, after his “love” has diappeared, throw him off the cliff..no dont do that …consistency might get u caught..take him fishing and throw him in the sea… come back all teary-eyed,enjoy his money ..marry the third guy…life goes on…..

  20. evil lil al Says:

    oh btw forgot to add this .. muhahhaha muhahahha muhahhaha

  21. Kuwaiti_Man Says:

    إختارى زواج العقل, الحب يجي بعد الزواج مع العشرة, والفلوس مع إنها حلوة, لكنها ماتجيب السعادة
    ياما ناس تزوجوا عن حب, وألحين يلعنون الساعة اللي إرتبطوا فيها

    الله يوفقج بدنيتج, ويرزقج بولد الحلال اللي يسعدج

  22. True Faith Says:

    P4,

    Me accepting depends on the following;

    1. Did you ask your mom before coming to my Blog?
    2. Where will take me for Honey moon?
    3. Where will we live?
    4. How will you act when I start stuttering?

    Rayhane najib,

    Good Opinion

    Welcome to my blog, keep visiting.

    Bo maryoom,

    I have a 26 years love story in my house :)

    الله يخليهم لبعض و لي

    Q8ibloger,

    Of course :)

    Vintage,

    My sister’s friends always come to me for advice. I don’t know why.

    Al,

    You wicked witch.

    Kuwaiti_Man,

    First of all Welcome to my blog.

    I am the عقل type of person.

    That’s why I am still single :)

    Thank you for you do3a’a

  23. Sarpanch Says:

    Given the options, I would go for the second girl; I know what’s Unrequited Love.

  24. Tattas Says:

    Well .. I always have this in my mind ..
    Of course the 2nd man .I will love him by time as he loves me .. Marriage is give and take ..

    Bas etha kan maaleeeeq .. I don’t think that I can tolerate him ma agdar ajamel !

  25. True Faith Says:

    Sarpanch,

    Same as my choice. It is great to be loved :)

    tattas,

    hahaha

    Didn’t think of that.

  26. Purgatory Says:

    P4!!! I need to discuss with his mom, seems she is away from him alot these days! He should come back to me for some discpline.

  27. True Faith Says:

    Purg,

    Please don’t punish him; and let him come to my blog more often; don’t worry it is safe here.

  28. P4 Says:

    1. Hmmm…no :P
    2. The Underground.
    3. In Hades
    4. Jump up & down

  29. True Faith Says:

    Oh my god,

    What are you? a vampire or an undertaker.

    NO NO NO I will not marry you.

    Purg, Take your son from my blog

  30. bo rashed Says:

    as a grl choose the one who luv U coz a smart grl knows how 2 make him luv her! simple & easy :P

  31. Purgatory Says:

    TF, I warned you :) compared to me, he is balwa, wakhree 3ana :)

  32. Purgatory Says:

    no posts for a while, 3asa mashar?

  33. Ra-1 Says:

    Purg …
    she is busy :)

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