25 May 2005
Responsibility
As much I hate taking the responsibility of things as much I do.
I have always taken the big parts of paper work in School as well in College; when there is a Paper work I always take the major work; I don’t trust others in completing the work so I think if I took it my self it would be better for me and the group; they never mind.
My sister throws a birthday party for her self every year; and I tell her that I am not going to do any thing, I will just buy her a gift; and I end up doing every thing.
At work I do the same; I will not take anybody’s work; it will be only mine that I will do; And when someone is in a leave I end up taking all of his work.
When my parents travel, I ask them to give there kids enough money because I am not going to give them any If they come asking me for money; and I end up giving them most of my salary.
I love kids so much; yet I don’t want to take the responsibility of rising my own. Will I end up having my own dozen? :/
May 25th, 2005 at 12:28 pm
mashallah dozen!
May 25th, 2005 at 12:43 pm
Imagine that; me a mother of Dozen :/
May 25th, 2005 at 12:44 pm
take no body else work otherwise they d always depend on u
family wise its ok its the best existing invesment ever
May 25th, 2005 at 12:48 pm
Bo Rashed,
Long time.
I tried to not take others work; But I just couldn’t not offer my help when needed.
Family wise; ask the expert :p
May 25th, 2005 at 1:11 pm
:) physically am away but my mind is here
May 25th, 2005 at 1:13 pm
:)
May 25th, 2005 at 1:19 pm
That’s ok .. helping others is not that bad ..but just don’t overload urself ..
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Raising your own chilidren .. the most enjoyable resposibilty on earth ..
You can easily have a dozen .. if u are one of the mothers that I talked abt in my lst post ;D
May 25th, 2005 at 1:23 pm
I understand what you mean. I was in similar situations many times & especially during college. If I was in a team (which I don’t like to be in one) I used to make sure I’d so all the hard parts (if not all), not because i’m a good guy or that I wanna help my colleagues, but its purely because I don’t feel they would not do their job properly (or at least the way I want it). Unfortunatly (& bo rashed is right about it) some people might take advantage of the habit & use you to do some tasks that they should take care of, and here you should say it loud ENOUGH or as they say it in Egypt “Kifaaya” :p
Let them take responsibility, the results might not be as you wish at first, but eventually they’ll realise that you wont always be there to do what they should do.
oooooofff… long comment, need a break:P
May 25th, 2005 at 1:25 pm
oh & Dozen is too much. I know a lady who used to work with us, she had 6 twins (yes 6 mashallah)… I think the goverment provided her with financial suuport or something.
May 25th, 2005 at 1:28 pm
Broken,
I have been taking care of my two little brothers; It is good but not that good :p
Bo ghazi,
ooooofff
Long comment, I have to have a break after reading it:P
May 25th, 2005 at 1:30 pm
Bo ghazi,
I some times say enough and some times galbi ma y6awe3ni.
As for the dozen; I was just wondering about it.
I think two will be enough for me.
May 25th, 2005 at 1:37 pm
I don’t know you well but I imagine you’re the kind of woman who is surrounded with atleast 5 kids
May 25th, 2005 at 1:38 pm
Don’t say tha; My mom thinks that I will have 20 :s
May 25th, 2005 at 1:44 pm
Well as I said.. you seem like a loving, caring person who loves children & I guess boodi & Loosh are madly in love with you
May 25th, 2005 at 1:46 pm
six z reasonable number of kids
May 25th, 2005 at 1:51 pm
Bo ghazi;
My face is blushing :p
Bo rashed;
Yes reasonable if they were 3 girls and 3 boys but never good when the number of boys exceeds the number of girls.
May 25th, 2005 at 2:17 pm
I don’t like responsibilities but they seem to follow me around specially now in my new position at work! Before I had a supervisor to go to, now people come to me!
and I like the 2 girls to be born before the boys ..
As for the kids, I would like to have 4 minimum, 2 boys and 2 girls so that each will be 3am/3amah and 5al/5alah
May 25th, 2005 at 2:32 pm
yeah a nice darzan of kids running arround the house knocking everything in their way
:P
May 25th, 2005 at 3:02 pm
Hopeless,
Nice equation
Q8ibloger,
Yeh, knocking everything in their way even your peace.
May 25th, 2005 at 5:26 pm
come on kids are like angels
or like shytans in 3ameya:P
May 26th, 2005 at 10:12 am
I want them all boys :p
May 27th, 2005 at 6:07 am
When I read your post I remembered an old saying by Lewis Carroll:
“One of the deepest secrets of life is that all that is really worth doing is what we do for others”
Hmmm… Kids!
A year ago, before I did my Paediatrics (children medicine) attachment, I used to think the more kids you have, the more fun you and they will have. Now that I worked with kids for 2 months I cannot stand the idea of having kids around me- those little innocent creatures can so easily turn your life up side down lol that is just me, and I know that I am an exception! No one I know agrees with me!
Anyways
May god fulfil your mother’s whish and give you 20 kids!
May 30th, 2005 at 10:39 am
its my first time to read your blog
very nice one , i liked it so much
فى مثل عندنا فى مصر بيقول :
مش كل قط يتقاله يا مشمش
ومش كل من ركب الفرس خيال
وانا باقول مش كل من كتب المدونات مدون
اليوم كسبت مدونة جديدة اتابعها بشغف
May 30th, 2005 at 10:44 am
Thank you Osama.
That was really sweet of you
You are always welcome