However, pain doesn’t necessarily go away; also shame doesn’t always remain, it can go away.
Shame is a personal thing and is normally based on what other people think. Anything shameful in one culture and tradition is not necessarily the same in another.
August 24th, 2005 at 8:42 am
if I had to… pain
August 24th, 2005 at 8:49 am
pain
August 24th, 2005 at 9:16 am
Shame
August 24th, 2005 at 9:29 am
Isn’t shame painful??
Why having both while I can have 1 only??
Thus I choose pain and being proud
August 24th, 2005 at 9:43 am
I’d say pain cause it’ll eventually go away, shame won’t.
August 24th, 2005 at 12:29 pm
pain for exactly same reason as spomtaneous said
August 24th, 2005 at 1:15 pm
Shame - If you think that the act isn’t shameful, than it doesn’t matter as to the other’s perception.
Pain - Well, not much can be done once having been inflicted by it.
Under those circumstances, I’d go for the former.
August 24th, 2005 at 1:15 pm
Pain
August 24th, 2005 at 1:37 pm
Pain
August 24th, 2005 at 2:23 pm
pain
August 24th, 2005 at 4:07 pm
if you get shame you get pain
but if you get pain, it’s only pain no shame..
what am I saying anyway?
August 24th, 2005 at 4:29 pm
I’d agree with Sarpanch.
However, pain doesn’t necessarily go away; also shame doesn’t always remain, it can go away.
Shame is a personal thing and is normally based on what other people think. Anything shameful in one culture and tradition is not necessarily the same in another.
Istafti qalbak.
August 24th, 2005 at 4:39 pm
it depends what we talking about
coz shame is relative
August 25th, 2005 at 12:10 pm
Whichever is right? Hmm, or better in the long run.
Shame, cause it derives modesty? If that’s relative to the issue…
August 25th, 2005 at 5:14 pm
pain, but I agree with sarah shame is pain too
August 26th, 2005 at 9:19 pm
Pain
August 28th, 2005 at 12:36 pm
I would chose pain, Pain is temporary, Pride is forever.