17 September 2005
OUCH
Those small devils that I have at home are so obsessed with rap and rappers; they dress like them and sing their songs. I have been trying to take their CDs and hide them or throw them but with no use, they will go and buy new ones.
I tried to talk to them about how not suitable those songs are for their age; but with no use, especially Boodi who would tell me: “Well, you’re not our mom”.
Last Wednesday I heard that little brat call Loosh with the “F” word. Oh God, I was really shocked so I shouted at him: “How dare you”. “And what is your business” he said it in the rudest way (he shocks me with his words), “Well I am your oldest sister and I care about you” I paused, waiting for his reply, but he didn’t say anything looking at me waiting for other words “and this word you said is not a good word” I said. “SO” he said, “You should not use it”. “Well, you are not my mom to tell me what to do” he said while he was pointing his finger at me. A six years old boy, with such attitude isn’t good.
I told my parents about it, so my father talked to them for a while and the conversation led to that my father will listen to the CDs before they do and if there is any such words he will not give it to them. And if he knows that any of them used such words he will be punished. That was fair enough to Loosh but to Boodi it wasn’t, because he knew that this means that my father will throw all of his CDs. So he came to me and said “You should shut up”. OUCH
September 17th, 2005 at 12:03 pm
just spank the brats, never talk to kids.
You rule kids by fear, not by logic, and the magic word is rule.
September 17th, 2005 at 12:11 pm
as you said : A six years old boy
فلا تستغربين ردود الياهل ولا تخلينها تصدمج .. و دام انه أثر فيج فالاولى انج انتي تأثرين فيه .. و عندج اللي اكبر مني و لهم تجربة ياهال اكيد بيفيدونج اكثر
September 17th, 2005 at 12:11 pm
hahahha.. just for the record, the picture you have for a wrestler from WCW not a music rapper..
September 17th, 2005 at 12:16 pm
Purg; As Boodi said, i am not his mom… So I will let him to his parents to deal with him.
Eb9ara7a; I was just shocked.
The Don; I know, but jhon cena is also a rapper and has an album of the worst words. and he is Boodi’s favorite rapper.
September 17th, 2005 at 12:35 pm
True not mom, yet you are older, hence, its about discipline, you need to spank them.
September 17th, 2005 at 12:39 pm
Purg; no way I will not do that, I may cry if I did that.
September 17th, 2005 at 1:20 pm
3aaadi, my 6-year-old brother plays Grand Thefto Auto and enjoys killing the police.
“wanasa”
September 17th, 2005 at 1:26 pm
Allah e3enech!
September 17th, 2005 at 1:27 pm
3baid; Those games are another issue and it’s not 3adi …. Those children are doing what is not suitable for their age and that might affect their personality…
Violence is what is happening … Boodi and Loosh fight in a very harmful way … I sometimes think that they would kill each other … and all of that is because of the those games …
Too much violence could create criminals.
September 17th, 2005 at 1:29 pm
Ra-1; thank you
September 17th, 2005 at 2:33 pm
PURG!!!!! you are going to make one heartless parent!!! your kids will have issues!
September 17th, 2005 at 2:36 pm
If they like a certain genre of music than what’s the harm in that? Agreed the lyrics are a bit out of place for kids, but still; they like listening to it. And I bet, they wouldn’t understand the song literally. They probably just like to hymn over the tune.
According to me, The idea of your Dad filtering out the music that his kids listen to is not practical at all.
And next time they show you the finger, give them what they ask for; A tight Rap.
September 17th, 2005 at 5:36 pm
Sponty, I do not believe in talking to kids or discussing these things with them, once a kid speaks up or acts not proper, that kid is punished, and I have no problem being heartless. Want to be my wife?
September 17th, 2005 at 7:32 pm
well, allah e3enech first
Second I still don’t understand how could your little brother talk to you this way ! sorry bas didn’t your parent at least teach him how to treat and talk to his elder sister ?
I’m sorry, don’t misunderstand me, bas if they’re favourite music is rap, and they keep imitating rappers and such low-class american pop culture, then I honestly don’t see a bright future for them unless they change critically.
Alqa3eda el 3elmya taqool : Faqedo Alshay’ la yo36eeh. so don’t expect them to be something in the future unless they obtain it’s root in their childhood.
September 17th, 2005 at 8:08 pm
Sarpanch; I disagree with you in that children should make their own choices … well not in every thing then why are there parents and what’s their job.
Expatriate; thank you for your comment… and I believe what you said is correct..
My parents do try their best specially with Boodi.. Loosh is not that big problem he usually obeys to me and my parents.. But that little brat is a major problem his attitude is getting worse since this summer…
those kids are so clever.. and they know everything .. They would argue with you about every thing and would want you to convince them about what you are telling them to do or not to do…
September 17th, 2005 at 8:52 pm
Allah y3eenij
you seriously have a lot of work to do for bro
give him better substitutes and give him people to look up for,,
September 17th, 2005 at 9:35 pm
Purg, I love me way much than to want to have anything to do with u =P
September 17th, 2005 at 10:19 pm
Sponty, what about our kids?
September 17th, 2005 at 10:30 pm
Q8ibloger; Thank you
Give him people???? Do you mean clubs as parties like I9la7 and I7yaá turath stuff.
No parties will be involved in my brothers life.
Sponty and Purg; I would give you Boodi to adopt if you want
September 17th, 2005 at 10:32 pm
no
you went way off there
as in the Prophet saw and his companions rudwan Allahu 3alayhim
September 17th, 2005 at 11:17 pm
TF, are you sure? he will be spanked.
September 17th, 2005 at 11:25 pm
I told you so
And I think you also should take their CDs away even if they said you are not my mom. They will hate you at first but later they will get used to that.
I am planning from now to let my kids listen to country, instrumental and old music like I do
September 18th, 2005 at 8:32 am
Q8ibloger; I didn’t understand !!!
Purg; He will not get spanked … sponty will not allow you to do that.
HP; Yeah you did..
Country music for their generation ??? You must be joking.
September 18th, 2005 at 8:53 am
شوفي راح اقولج رايي بكل صراحة
أنا مع التربية المبنية على الحوار لكن في نفس الوقت من مؤيدين سياسة الطراق و بقوة
احيانا الياهل لازم يخاف خاصة ان المنطق و الحوار ما ينفع معاه احيانا بحكم عمره
موقف مثل اللي صارلج .. كان لازم يتدخل فيه كف الوالد يخليه لكم
September 18th, 2005 at 8:59 am
Kuwaity_ra7al;
He is only six!!!
تربينا من غير طراقات و الحمدلله كانا مؤدبين و شزينا
September 18th, 2005 at 10:27 am
Sponty will not object.
Why is there a worry about spanking kids? generations have been raised and spanked and we grew up normal.
September 18th, 2005 at 10:35 am
Spanking = hitting
Hitting = hurting
Hurting = not good
September 18th, 2005 at 11:42 am
اختي الكريمة
هناك دائما فروقات شخصية و نفسية بيني و بين من حولي و حتى من هم رضعوا حليب امي و شاركوني فراشي
انت مثلا تربيتي كما تربى اخاك و لكن لم تفعلي كما فعل أو ربما لم تكوني ميالة بطبعك إلى فعل السوء
يقولون بالكويتي ” كل بيت و فيه عرة
و أنا لا أقصد الضرب من اجعل التعذيب و لكن شيء بسيط كصورة من صور العقاب
قلتي ان الضرب يولد الكره و أعتقد ان التسليم المطلق بهذه العبارة قد يؤدي أحيانا إلى ضياع و بعدها لن يفيد الضرب و لا حتى الندم
آسف على الإطالة و مع ارق تحية
September 18th, 2005 at 11:47 am
Thank you Kuwait ra7al.
Still I’m not his mom
September 18th, 2005 at 11:55 am
Hurting is good because it will make him remember next time he says or does anything.
September 18th, 2005 at 4:14 pm
kids need disiplen , hit them once or twice and they’ll know u’r serious and wont take u for granted.
kis at these age try to expand there limits , if they see u loose , they’ll expand more reaching to teenage it’ll be a real OUCH
keep them under ur hand even if u werent there direct raiser ..
May 15th, 2008 at 2:08 pm
cool if u do cool if u don’t